Diana Von Rigg is a ravishing, inked professional and lifestyle Dominatrix located in the West Midlands
I follow Diana Von Rigg on Twitter and am inspired by her account. I rather found Diana to be a real person, and remarkably captivating. Her messages are bold, yet encouraging. When Diana recently posted on Twitter, “Dear 19 year old Me, This is you in 13 years. You are better than you could’ve ever imagined, life is better. I’m glad you stuck around. Keep your head down, work hard and remember to breathe. I’ll see you when you get here.” I thought it was a thought-provoking and wonderful post. In some respect, that’s what my book Triple-Formed is about. A journey of self-exploration.
That’s when I had a moment of sudden inspiration to reach out to Diana to request an interview, she obviously accepted my request. So here it is…
1. Diana Von Rigg tell us your background – where you’re from etc
Born and raised in Staffordshire. I’ve held a ridiculous amount of jobs but I’ve finally found ‘The One’ – No real formal education minus some poor GCSE results, I was always the ‘naughty kid’ and getting myself into trouble. I never took the classroom environment seriously and still don’t, I’m a kinesthetic learner with ADHD/ADD which took Me a good few years to figure out!
2. You’ve posted a picture of Diana Von Rigg at a tattoo convention at 19 – what’s the story there?
Diana Von Rigg
I first got into this industry at the age of 18, I remember the first thing I did on the morning of My 18th birthday was apply to several ‘alternative modelling’ sites and there was one I did pretty well with, a select few of us were asked to represent the website at London Tattoo Convention with Holly D and that was My first taste of what the future could bring.
3. When did you become a Domme and what led you to it?
I officially became a Dominatrix in 2017 and I feel rather lucky I found it when I did. I started in the scene around the age of 19, meeting like-minded people off Fetlife so I’ve always been in the Kink environment and it was one afternoon in 2017, I had a text from a friend who lived locally, she knew I was always a bit of a weird type that would rarely say no to things – she asked Me if I wanted to earn some cash for a few hours work with her, I said sure I’ll be there in 30 minutes! This was to become My first real time session, My mind was blown and My eyes were opened. It was an Adult Baby session which I don’t offer now but I have to say, for jumping in head first, it was a fantastic experience that left me thinking for weeks after. I wanted more.
4. Did you find it hard at first and how did you make a name for yourself?
I found it surprisingly easy. Easier than any civilian job I’ve ever held, the one battle I did have was with My self-confidence, having listened to so many people over the years who would put you down in order to feel better about themselves, there’s been a lot of work to un-do to get to where I am now. I still don’t feel like I’m anywhere near the Domme I am destined to be but that’s fine with Me, it’s not anything to be rushed – it’s a journey, a marathon not a sprint. I just take each day as it comes, keep my mouth closed (kind of) , stay in my own lane and just focus on being a better person, a better Domina. Every single day is a school day and I am still very much an embryo in this world.
5. If you could go back, would this be the career path you’d choose?
Hell yes! This would be My career path, there are times I wish I could have started a lot earlier but then I wouldn’t have the wisdom or emotional intelligence to be at My very best so I think I started at the right time. It’s never too late to find yourself. I’m here for the long haul, there’s no getting rid of Me now!
6. What advice would you give your 19-year old self?
Advice for 19-year old Me. Be kind to yourself. You’re going to get to where you need to be, have faith in yourself, have patience and be kind to yourself. You know what’s best for you, not other people, thank them and smile but continue on YOUR path and be kind to yourself. I can’t say it enough.
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7. To a young girl wanting to get into this world what advice would you give? What are the benefits, pitfalls and dangers?
I don’t feel in any way qualified or experienced enough to answer this but if someone were to want to get into this at a young age, they would need to have a thick skin, a lot of patience and a huge amount of emotional intelligence. That’s the reason I don’t think I could have succeeded if I’d started Dominating any earlier. The experiences life has thrown at me away from this world has shaped Me into the person I am now so when I’m in the dungeon, there is no acting, no separate personalities, it’s just Me. People in all walks of life will manipulate you, take advantage, harass and abuse you – you just have to keep your wits about you, stay as safe as possible. The best thing to do, if you’re really serious, is to save up your money and invest in mentoring. See if the Domina you’ve been admiring for months does any mentoring (online or in person, and beware of the charlatans) and ask for her rates. Volunteer to help at your local dungeon and network. Take classes, rope classes, impact play, humiliation classes, there’s a world of resources for anyone thinking of entering the world of sadism and masochism. An access to health course at college would be a great start, learn your anatomy, basic first aid, buy the clips of who you’re most inspired by and study. The most dangerous thing you can do is pretend to be more experienced than you actually are. People will respect your honesty and candour, just be real about it.
8. Why should people pick you?
I’ve never been a pick me type at all, I dislike that question almost as much as “alpha male” (!) I’m not here for you to pick from and I’m very secure in the fact that I don’t need to offer spots for random men in My stable. You earn your place beneath Me – men have it far too easy these days with a lot of things being easily purchased via a cash transaction. I want to reprogramme and retrain men away from instant gratification so before I even consider picking YOU, you better be on your finest behaviour and ready to get to work on being a better, kinder, more selfless man, a man who believes in Femocracy or a willing student. I can be very hard to read (which I admit I enjoy) but it can often make the decision process harder than it needs to be which I appreciate but this is where initiative comes in. Save up and send a tribute, explain that you’d like to get to know Me better, have a list of questions ready, buy My clips and see how I work, how I like to play. Study My twitter page (FOR FREE!) and find out what you connect with there- granted I do like to post a lot of fantasy but it’s all there I want genuine, authentic connections, a huge pet peeve of Mine is boys approaching Me because they like the way I look but have never watched a single clip of Mine. Yes it can play a huge part in the decision process but it shows Me you’re thinking with the wrong head – I like boys to take note of My posts, My likes and dislikes, I mean really study before making their initial approach. I probably only ever accept 5% of the session requests I receive – Domination is a luxury, a privilege to be earned. I only want the best and I only want those that are wholeheartedly devoted to Me and only Me.
There we have it, Kinksters! A big shout out to Diana Von Rigg – Thank you for sharing your story and for being so open and honest. I hope the men who read this blog take on board what Diana is saying here, and learn from it.
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