Femdom Wrestling with Inferno!

Podopheleus interviews Tiny Monster – Femdom Wrestling with Inferno

Hello, hello, Femdom Wrestling Lovers! 

Recently, I was talking to the wonderful Tiny Monster about his first ever femdom wrestling session with the awesome Inferno! As he shared his experiences, I had an effulgent flash of intuition to interview Tiny Monster about this subject matter. Before we get started, once again, please allow me to introduce you to the wonderful Tiny Monster! Over to you, Tiny! 

1. Who is Tiny Monster?

Hi everyone, I am Tiny Monster.

This is my third interview for Podopheleus. I shall, nonetheless, re-introduce myself just to set the scene.

I am a (naturally, I think) submissive man in my late fifties. I have always known that I am a submissive, but I did not begin to act upon my needs and kinky inclinations until about three years ago. My first ever BDSM session was with Mistress Sakura Strike of London. Mistress Sakura has been my guide and mentor on this amazing submissive journey – and, just over a year ago, She honoured me by taking me under formal ownership.

I mentioned to my Owner that I would like to experience being wrestled into submission, and, with customary generosity, She gave me permission to book a session with a Domme who offers such services. I have only ever had sessions with Mistress Sakura (including one ‘double-Domme’ session with Sir Claire Black), so this was something completely new for me. 

I have written, extensively, about it in my own blog, and Podopheleus has been kind enough to offer me this additional platform to talk about my wrestling adventure.

2. From a kink point of view, what is a femdom wrestling session?

Okay, let’s clear up, right from the start, that my experience in this area is limited to exactly one two-hour session. I claim no expertise and no extensive knowledge. So, this will be entirely from a Tiny Monster point of view. That’s the best I can offer – and, for all I know, my own perspective might be very different to most other people’s.

A wrestling session is an opportunity to experience submitting to someone who uses only their body and their physical prowess to express and/or enforce their dominance. In the ‘fantasy wrestling’ session that I requested, one is supposed to lose – one is supposed to put up no more than token, or pretended, resistance. (There are other session types, such as ‘semi-competitive’ in which one fights back more determinedly.)

It is a chance to lock horns (metaphorically) and lock bodies (literally) with a dominant opponent who will defeat you in combat and wrestle you into submission. It is a chance to feel what it is like to be made helpless and impotent – and to be, thereby, humiliated – by the strength and fighting skill of a powerful woman.

It is a way of play out the fantasy of being beaten up and physically bullied.

3. What is it that draws you to this type of play?

My favourite fantasies are those in which I am forced into submission against my will, in which things are done to me without my consent. There are, for me, two ways of making this ‘work’ within the fantasy and, by extension, within a BDSM roleplay: blackmail and physical coercion. 

The latter can involve being held and restrained as well as the threat, or actual infliction, of pain to enforce compliance and surrender. I should say that I don’t particularly enjoy pain for its own sake, I enjoy it as a means of subjugating, punishing, training, or humiliating me. Having my Domme hurt me is all about the submission of it.

An important part of the fantasy/roleplay is, for me, the process of my subjugation – how it happens that I am forced into submission. It is not enough to enter the story in medias res, I am turned on by the means and procedure of my domination – how it starts, and the manner and progression of it.

I have played out the blackmail method in many (thoroughly enjoyable) roleplays with Mistress Sakura, but I have never enacted the physical force element. Having a wrestling session was the fulfilment of the desire to live out that fantasy.

I was also attracted – greatly aroused – by the idea of being helpless and powerless. And I don’t mean helpless in the way that I am when my Mistress ties me up or straps me down (although, that is wonderful, of course). What I am talking about is feeling powerless in the hands of someone stronger than me – someone who is able to physically defeat me, restrain me, make me feel weak and defenceless. Ideally, I wanted to session with someone who can actually do that to me rather than with someone who we would pretend could do so.

Again, I also wanted to experience the process of being overpowered and rendered helpless. I wanted to play out the way that I am made to submit and the way that physical force (and pain) is used to force me into obedience. The story of how I am brought under someone else’s control is, for me, every bit as important as what happens once I have been subjugated.

One thing that I have always fantasised about, always wanted to happen to me, is being lifted and carried over someone’s shoulder. I am enormously turned-on by the idea of being overpowered in this way: hanging helpless and vulnerable and utterly at the mercy of the person holding me.

My fetish is femdom and so, naturally, I want this to be done to me by a dominant woman.

I was also, to a degree, drawn to the idea of the raw physicality of a wrestling session. I liked the idea of the rough, primeval, bestial, atavistic struggle with another body – but within the safe space of a session with a competent and responsible professional. It’s a fantasy, after all.

4. How did you find out about Inferno?

The way that one finds out about almost everything these days – the internet.

It did not take much searching to come across The Submission Room (run by the very friendly Pippa the Ripper), in fact it was the first site I looked at.

What most impressed me about The Submission Room website, and what convinced me to book with them, was the clarity and transparency of the information. The site clearly explains the different types of session on offer, and what one can expect from each (as well as what is expected in return). There is also a useful FAQ section. There are excellent descriptions of each wrestler (height, weight, experience, specialities, availability, photographs), the services they offer, and their particular interests. 

Most importantly (for shy, insecure, nervous prospective clients such as me), the website is open and very clear about the session fees of each wrestler.

There are about thirty session wrestlers listed on the site. I was able to whittle down the choices fairly quickly by eliminating those who do not offer that all-important lift/carry service.

Inferno, I have to say, leapt out at me (metaphorically) straight away. Her profile on the site shows that she offers everything I was seeking and her look – her whole aesthetic – is amazing. And that hair!

There really was no doubt that Inferno was my first choice of opponent (I mean no disrespect to the other wrestlers, I have not the slightest doubt that they are all skilled and professional, and they all have great individual looks – there was just something about Inferno that especially called to me). So, after double-checking with my Owner, I filled in the application form and booked my session.

5. Tells us a little bit about your session with Inferno?

It was brilliant. It was everything I hoped for and more.

I have written five lengthy blog posts about this, so it is clear that there is an awful lot that I could say. I shall try, however, to trim down my prolixity and my enthusiasm for the subject in order to make this acceptably brief.

When I arrived at The Submission Room, Inferno met me outside and led me in. She showed me around and we had a friendly chat about general things, then moved on to talk about the session itself: what I wanted and expected, and what was possible. We discussed my desire for the illusion of non-consent and agreed upon a roleplay that would facilitate the idea that everything was being done to me against my will.

Then, after we had changed into our wrestling clothes (shorts and T-shirt for me; shorts and sports bra for Inferno), we made our way up to the mat room where we agreed safe words and Inferno explained about ‘tapping out’. 

We began the roleplay with Inferno confronting me and threatening to punish and humiliate me. I was blustering and arrogant. I said that I had no intention of fighting her and that, in any case, it would be pointless because I was a man, and she was just ‘a little girl’.

Inferno advanced upon me with a predatory – and very intimidating – smile. I backed away, and she mocked me for doing so. Then she grabbed me, and the fight began.

Except that there was no fight…

“The whole point of this session was that I wanted to be wrestled into submission. I wanted, obviously, to lose. 

“That is the entire premise of the ‘fantasy wrestling’ session that I had booked. I am supposed to be defeated.

Before the session began, and in the anticipatory weeks leading up to it, I had assumed that when on the mats, I would put up a token struggle, pretend to fight back, offer just enough resistance to make it seem real. What a deluded fool I was!

“Any idea of that was instantly dismissed when my opponent took hold of me.

“I could not have held my own in a fight with Inferno if I had tried. There was absolutely no sense of ‘putting up a token struggle’ . I was completely overpowered, outclassed, and utterly defeated right from the start.

“Inferno could have done everything (or damned near everything) that she did to me even if I had tried my best to stop her. I was powerless to resist. My opponent was just fitter, stronger, faster, more flexible, more skilful, more capable than me – was simply a much, much better fighter.

“I was no match for her in any sense. Inferno could do pretty much anything she wanted to me, and I was powerless to stop her. 

“I was helpless.

“It was wonderful.”

(The part in quotation marks is taken directly from my blog because I do not think I could state things any better than this.)

We ran through the full panoply of wrestling holds and restraints, and Inferno included some BDSM-ish additions.

I was gripped, grappled, choked, pinned, scissored (body and head), thrown, twisted, contorted, trampled, spanked, ridden like a pony, and subjected to numerous holds. Inferno controlled my breath with her thighs (by scissoring) and her hands. My opponent sat on my chest and pinned my arms above my head, enabling her to use her hands to twist my nipples and tweak my nose. It was very humiliating and not a little painful.

Several times, Inferno sat on my face, smothering me and cutting off my breathing. My face was squashed into her shorts-covered bottom or her crotch, and she adjusted her position – wriggling so that my nose and mouth were completely pressed into the creases of her body. Inferno held me down this way until I tapped out.

I was forced onto all fours so that Inferno could ride on my back, and she slapped my backside to make me go faster and forced me to ‘neigh’ like a horse. I was also made to kiss and worship her bare feet.

One of the things I especially loved was my complete inability to break Inferno’s grip. I think that I am reasonably strong (I have a heavy manual job), but I couldn’t budge her arms when she locked them around me, and I was totally unable to prise her legs apart when she had me in a scissor hold. I remember gripping her thighs and trying, with all my strength, to force them from around my neck – I failed miserably. It really made me feel weak and helpless.

At one point, I was being held in a reverse head scissors and Inferno began yanking out the hairs on my legs. Ouch! In another hold, she smacked my bottom and the tops of my thighs – then she licked her palm to administer a ‘wet-hand’ spanking. Ouch!

Best of all was when Inferno lifted me and put me over her shoulder. It was fantastic. And Inferno is so strong. I had deliberately lost weight for this session but, even so, I was lifted as though I weighed nothing. It was as though I was a child, a doll. I felt utterly powerless. It was exactly what I had wanted.

I was carried around and Inferno demonstrated how strong she was, and how helpless I was, by doing squats and thrusts and by standing on one leg. She also intimidated me by bending backwards and threatening to drop me (while I begged and pleaded).

In addition to being lifted over Inferno’s shoulder, I was also given a piggy-back ride and a ‘cradle carry’. These made me feel very small and impotent; childlike and dependent.

The above is just a snapshot of everything that went on – for two hours – but I hope that it gives some idea of the richness, variety, and intensity of the experience.

Throughout the session, the roleplay and the humiliation continued and developed in conjunction with the wrestling. In fact, Inferno blended them seamlessly into a wonderful whole.

Although I began as arrogant and blustering, I was soon reduced to begging and pleading. Finally, utterly vanquished and humbled, I surrendered and accepted my position as Inferno’s ‘bitch-boy’. I was brought down, in inexorable stages, to the status of a slave, a lackey, a toy, a pet.

I was beaten – my spirit was broken, and my body was exhausted.

I loved it.

It was precisely what I had asked for. It was even better than I had been expecting.

6. Having embraced this Femdom Wrestling desire once, might you do it again?

I would really like to do it again – although I make no assumptions about whether my Owner would grant me permission, or whether Inferno would be happy to session with me again.

Being overpowered and wrestled into submission was, as I hoped it would be, the fulfilment of a lifelong dream.

I confess that it did feel a little odd, submitting to someone other than my Mistress (when I had the double-Domme session with Sir Claire, Mistress Sakura was there), and kissing someone else’s feet. I am a ludicrously, hopelessly faithful old hound and, even though I had my Owner’s full permission and blessing, I couldn’t help feeling slightly disloyal. I have discussed this with Mistress Sakura, and she was at great pains to reassure me.

So, the answer is yes.

7. What did it feel like to actually be a part of real time session with one of the most respected wrestling prodommes?

It felt fantastic. And it felt like an honour.

Inferno is lovely. She was so kind and friendly and welcoming to me when I arrived. She did everything she could to reassure me and to put me at my ease.

And she is beautiful. Her eyes are vibrant and expressive, and her smile can light up the room – or intimidate the bejayzus out of you. Her body is slender and wonderfully toned, and her muscles, when she flexes, are like steel cables.

Inferno is a superb fighter (not, to be honest, that I have much experience in this area) and a marvellous Domme. She controls and commands the space she is in, which made me feel both safe and submissive.

I should also mention that Inferno’s aftercare is excellent. At the end of the session, she brought me a drink and a banana, and spent time talking to me and bringing me back, very gently, to reality.

I left the studio feeling happy and elated – and aching, of course.

8. What did you learn from this experience and what advice would you give to someone who is thinking about exploring wrestling play?

I learned that I would be absolutely useless in a fight. I had already pretty much assumed that to be the case, but this session left me in no doubt at all. 

I learned, first hand, that there are very many, and very varied, ways that someone can restrain you and/or cause you pain using just their body, strength, and skill. Also there are innumerable ways for someone to use your own body against you.

I learned that my chest can take the full weight of somebody’s standing on it.

I learned that I really like pony play.

I learned that being carried over someone’s shoulder is every bit as wonderfully humiliating (or humiliatingly wonderful) as I thought it would be.

I learned that it is extremely humiliating to be called a ‘cry-baby’ by a young woman who is carrying you.

I learned that a wrestling session is much more physically tiring than I was expecting.

Pod, you always ask me what advice I would give, and I am terrible at this bit. I don’t know what to say…

Make sure you eat something before the session – blood sugar level can drop away very, very suddenly.

I think that’s it.

Thank-you for giving me this platform, Pod.

Thank-you, Mistress Sakura, for your generosity and understanding.

And thank-you so much, Inferno, for a stupendous experience.

My blog accounts of this amazing adventure can be found here:

There we have it, Femdom Wrestling Lovers! 

I hope you enjoyed reading this interview blog on kinky wrestling. A massive shout-out to Tiny Monster! Thank you for answering my questions so comprehensively.

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Much Kink Love,

Podopheleus 

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