Thimble – Finding My Femdom Fantasy, Part 1 interview
Hello, Femdom Lovers!
It is no secret that I am a huge fan of Thimble! Yup. I’ve read all his books, and I cannot wait to read – “Finding My Femdom Fantasy, Part 1“. Oh, and just in case you missed our first interview, here it is.
And now, over to you, Thimble!
About Me – Thimble
I’ve been into kink for as long as I can remember. I was a shy kid who was afraid to admit his desires, so I fantasized about femdom to satisfy my urges. Six years ago, I started writing those fantasies down, and three years ago, I started publishing them.
My eighth and most recent novel, “Finding My Femdom Fantasy, Part 1“, is now available on Amazon. I’m currently in an FLR (Female Led Relationship) with a wonderful woman, and I’m living many of the femdom fantasies I imagined so long ago.
1.You have a new book coming out next month. Tell us about it.
It’s called Finding My Femdom Fantasy, Part 1, and it’s the most personal story I’ve written. It’s about a man in his 40s who’s at a crossroads in his life, who realizes he needs to go after the things he wants, one of which is a femdom relationship.
He falls in love with a gorgeous online dominatrix and through dedication, nerve and luck, gets to serve her in real time. In doing so, he’s forced to confront entrenched beliefs about himself, his limits and his desires, and he discovers the difference between lifestyle service and visiting professionals.
2. How does your new book differentiate from your other books?
This one hits closer to home. I outlined this book almost two-and-a-half years ago, when I was serving (and infatuated with) an online dominatrix. The story was originally part real and part fantasy about how we’d eventually end up together, like fan fiction.
Unfortunately, that relationship ended poorly, but I liked the story, and I wanted to explore my issues around my sense of self-worth and ability to attract a dominant woman. There’s a lot in here from my real life. All of the dating stories are true, and some of the dialogue from them is word-for-word, though that may be hard to believe when you read them.
While I share traits with all of my protagonists, this one is the closest to me and my struggles and hang-ups and eccentricities.
In addition, the story is broken into two parts. As I was writing, I realized that the full story would be over 400 pages, and that it’d be better served in two installments.
3. In one of our previous interviews, you mention, “with each book I’m living out a fantasy – either about a kink or a person or a situation” which fantasy, kink etc are you living out in this book?
A bunch. The biggest is the fantasy of falling for a domme online and then getting the chance to serve her in real life and win her affection. There’s also serving in a lifestyle capacity versus a pro session, and the growth and self-discovery that comes from letting go of expectations.
I’m also exploring the kinks of public sex and both forced bi and forced heterosexual sex.
4. With a number of books under your belt, how do you continuously find inspiration to write new femdom?
Do you mean inspiration or ideas? If it’s ideas, I started fantasizing about femdom way before I hit puberty and continued up through my teens, 20s, 30s, and early 40s. I’ve got a lot of stories in me.
As far as inspiration, I like writing, and I like thinking that there’s a younger version of me somewhere, who’s struggling to accept who he is, and he’s reading my books and feeling better about himself.
5. What do you find most compelling about femdom writing?
It’s fun to take a fantasy or a curiosity and create a story around it. “Learning to Serve and Obey” grew out of my curiosity about an acquaintance of mine who’s very bossy and who I suspect dominates her husband, and wondering what she was like in college. “When Femdom Dreams Come True” grew out of a woman’s online dating profile. I like taking an idea and running with it, developing characters, creating conversations and building relationships.
I also love that I get to control what happens. In real life, things don’t always work out the way I want, but in my stories they do. Despite being submissive to my Mistress, I’m a bit of a control freak, and when I write, I get to control everything.
6. And finally, why should one buy/read your books? Can we expect more femdom stories from you in the future?
You should buy my books because they’re fun, and they’re hot, and there’s a lot of femdom action, but mostly because I think you’ll care about the characters. And yes, more books are coming. This is Finding My Femdom Fantasy Part 1. Part 2 will be out in August.
There we have it, Femdom Fantasy Lovers!
I hope you enjoyed reading this interview blog about Thimbles, new book – “Finding My Femdom Fantasy, Part 1“. A massive Shout-Out to Thimble! Thank-You for answering my questions so comprehensively.
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Check out Thimbles website here: https://www.thimblefemdom.com/
Oh, and please read Thimbles wonderful guest piece ‘The Stigma of the Submissive Male‘…
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Much Kink Love,
Podopheleus 🖤
