How to write an email to a Dominatrix

How do you write an email to a dominatrix? Writing an email to a Domme can sure be unnerving. A lot of Dommes will state on their website to use the correct use of grammar and to check your spelling before sending an email. This could lead to anxiety and intimidate the non-confident writer. 

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If you are not a confident writer, you are probably thinking Sheesh! So how do I construct an email to a Domme? Just leave it to me! I got you!

How to write an email to a Dominatrix

How to write an email to a Dominatrix – a template

So I’m going to give you a template that you can send to a Domme! Making life a teeny bit easier for you and to take the stress away. Are you ready? Look below ? and voilà!

Dear Mistress …….

How are you?

Please allow me to introduce myself. My name is …………., I am …… years old (male/female) with a pleasing personality. I take a certain theatrical pride in …………..  I also enjoy ……. ……… ……… 

The activities I mostly enjoy are: ……….. …………… ………….. …………. ………….. ………………… 

May I please kindly book a session for ……….. At …………

I am looking forward to hearing from you.

Kind regards 

………..

When you are emailing a Domme it is imperative that you are polite. Secondly, introduce yourself. Thirdly, share a bit about yourself. 

E.g.

I take a certain theatrical pride in writing Sex Roleplays! I also enjoy reading, exercising and listening to music.

Remember, you are a human being reaching out to another human being and this is great way to get acquainted.

Be specific about the activities you enjoy the most. Dommes are not mind readers. 

E.g.

The activities I mostly enjoy are: Sweaty feet worship! Face Thrusting! Strap-On! and Sensory Deprivation

Being specific avoids disappointment. Have you ever heard of the term “Brat“? To cut the long story short. Poor communication can lead to submissives becoming brats.

Lastly, during Lockdown I read several posts from Dommes about how submissives were being disrespectful to Dommes because they were refusing sessions. Being a submissive, It was shocking to hear my fellow submissives were acting so irrationally. Next time there is another lockdown how about trying this approach ?

Dear Mistress …..

Please allow me to introduce myself. My name is …………., I am …… years old male with a pleasing personality. I take a certain theatrical pride in …………..  I also enjoy ……. ……… ……… ………

I understand that you are not offering sessions at the moment due to the Pandemic and Government Lockdown Rules. However, I would really appreciate it if you could kindly save my details for when you are ready. 

Kind regards

……

And that is to write an email to a dominatrix (at least my advice on how to).

Now now isn’t that much better than sending an abusive email to a dominatrix?! Go on spud the screen! I can feel your positive kinky energy! 

Okeydoke! Hit me up on Instagram, Twitter, or via the site and let me know how your first session went! Remember – YOU got this!

Much Kink Love

Podopheleus

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