Hello again, Kinky Folks! Have you ever wondered what the London fetish scene is like? Have you ever thought “How do I become a Dominatrix?” Well I know the right lady to reveal all, one more time, please allow me to introduce you to the BDSM educator – Miss Kim Rub!
Introducing Miss Kim Rub
My name is Miss Kim Rub. I’ve been on the London fetish scene for 35 years now. I started my fetish history as a clubber. It started when I found myself in a fetish club. It should have been scary but it wasn’t – I felt like I’d found my place in the world. Then six years later I went on to start my own fetish club, then started my Mistress Workshop 11 years ago, and just six years ago became a professional dominatrix.
Of course, during these 35 years there have been many other various fetish-related projects which can be viewed on my Mistressworkshop.com in the ‘My Story’ section. It’s my history, with all of the past and current websites for each individual thing that I have and am involved in. Of which, there are a lot!
I like to think of myself as a very active member of the UK fetish community. My main focus at the moment is that of a professional dominatrix and a BDSM educator. Although, I do have a rubber-only fetish club called Rubber-Cult.com twice a year.
1. Tell us about your workshops
My Mistressworkshop.com, now in its 11th year, was every month prior to the pandemic. Details of costs are on the website. Now I also operate my workshops on a 1-2-1 basis. Ladies can come to my studio space or I can teach them online. This I love as ladies can be anywhere in the UK, and all over the world.
It’s a basic workshop that teaches ladies how to take control and be the dominant one in the relationship. Ladies come in many, many different guises; from married home users, to side-hustle part-time workers, online hobbies, lifestyle and show-off party players. I think people automatically assume that my workshops are for pro dommes, and this is not the case at all.
Even the small percentage that do come because they wish to join the profession, I’d say 5% to 10% may be put off by the end of the workshop, when they realise that it’s not just about picking up a whip. That’s because there is a lot of work involved, not just learning, marketing, equipment, logistics, down-time etc. But oh, so much more!
I teach all women of all ages, of all colours, all shapes, all nationalities and all interests. Some ladies just want to know about dominating their sissy husband, find out how to insert a needle for fun! Or they want to go to parties and hit somebody on the bottom correctly.
It’s different things to different people. I teach them all the endless possibilities of how they can look, act, speak, specialise, demand, control etc. For some, it will be pure performance, others will be interested in the all-various different subjects and want to immerse themselves into the culture and history. I certainly don’t ever tell anyone what to do. We should all find our own way.
2. Do you have any new projects?
Podcast is my most recent project. What Would Kim Do? podcast is conversations with Interesting people providing information for the fetish/BDSM community.
Listen here https://buff.ly/3Zg0Ew8 or https://buff.ly/3jKDopJ or https://buff.ly/3jXg6x6 Many thanks to @scorpio_leisure and @mistress_inka for the great intro track.
3. Why are you doing this podcast and what inspired you to create it?
The ‘How to be a dominatrix (is this a link on your site?)’ or Mistressworkshop.com, now in its 11th year, is why I have started this podcast. Miss Kim Rub podcast presents What Would Kim Do? I love imparting knowledge and wisdom, and I’m all about community. I aim to upload a new one every month.
I have helped so many ladies with my workshops, this is another way to do that. Interviewees will have many-strings-to-their-bow, rather than one-trick-ponies. It’s not going to be an indulgent giggle-fest, but another way of providing valuable information about the UK fetish scene.
Divine Theratrix at Centaur Studios was my first interview @DivineTheratrix from Centaur Studios” https://buff.ly/3Zg0Ew8 or https://buff.ly/3jKDopJ or https://buff.ly/3jXg6x6 It’s a cracking good listen, as she is very articulate, packed with information about her, the studio, events there and the ethos of the business model.
Providing information for the fetish/BDSM community.
4. How does the workshop work? How long is it for? Is the Mistress Workshop in person or virtual?
How to become a dominatrix?
I am more than happy to do my Mistress Workshop on any day of the week. Either in-person as a one-to-one or online. Simply give me a call on 07778596047 (I’m a great believer in picking up the phone), then I can ask specific questions about your circumstances. I like to talk with ladies, rather than asking them to sign-up to a nondescript email form online.
For instance, I like to know if you’re a home-user, if you live with your partner, if you’re in a long-distance relationship, if you’ve got children, if you want to turn professional etc. All of those things are really important, so I can work around those specific wants, needs and desires, and come up with a sort of workshop and the information that is pertinent to their lifestyle.
As you know too well Mr Podopheleus! Yes, we were on the phone for an hour!
5. Do you offer further assistance afterwards? A certificate?
The ladies are sent an email afterwards with lots of the information we have touched on in the workshop. Hundreds of kinky tips that I’ve compiled over the years, formulas to gather information etc. I’m also 100% here for the ladies forever, at no extra cost! Which means they can call me, text me, email me, message me on Twitter, on Fetlife or Instagram…failing that, send a pigeon!
Even if it’s five years later. I’m always going to be there for whoever I’ve taught before. The road will always lead back to me, and that’s that’s a great place to be in, to know that you know you can always ask another question. It doesn’t have to be done in the lesson, so that’s invaluable. Knowing that you’ve got somebody to ask.
Unusually, I started out an educator before I became a pro domme. Information sharing is not common with pro dommes. However, I’m not going to stop doing what I enjoy, and I really enjoyed teaching.
As for a certificate I have decided to offer one. They will be given a link at the end of each workshop.
6. And finally, what else are you working on?
My next project is lots of small little bite-size mini workshops on various subjects. They will be available online and very very affordable. Watch this space.
All my sites in one place: www.misskimlinktree.com
Miss Kim Rub 👠👠💋
There we have it, Kinky Folks!
A massive Shout-Out to the BDSM Educator – Miss Kim Rub! Please follow Miss Kim Rub on social media.
Twitter: @misskimrub
Instagram: @rubberkinkqueen
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Much Kink Love,
Podopheleus
All links @ Podopheleus | Triple-Formed – Advocate for Change
P.S. Check out more of Miss Kim Rub’s articles and interviews BELOW!
What is the Queen Bee Society?
How to become a Dominatrix? Miss Kim Rub & her ‘Mistress Workshop’
London Mistress Testimonial – Miss Kim Rub
Learn from the Best – Miss Kim Rub (a Sissification story)
