Podopheleus interviews Mistress Alexis Cox – Sensual Dominatrix
Hello, Sensual Lovers!
Recently, I was introduced to Mistress Alexis Cox by my good friend – Dirk Hooper! Yup, that’s right, Dirk Hooper!! You know, the illustrator, the author, the blogger, the photographer etc etc. In case you live under a rock, here is my interview with Dirk Hooper!!!
Anyhoo, shortly after my conversation via email with Mistress Alexis, we arranged a phone call, we spoke for over an hour about sex work, sessions, and sensual play, which led to this interview.
However, before we get started, did you know that Mistress Alexis Cox was a featured guest on the Kinky Cocktail Hour? I know, right? In case you missed it, here it is: https://www.buzzsprout.com/962578/10285229
Introducing Mistress Alexis Cox
This is Mistress Alexis Cox, sensual Dominatrix. I am a British, 35 years old, 175 cm tall, athletic woman. I got into professional domination a year ago, but was always a Domme at heart. I have a background of streaptease for more than 12 years all around the world, and I became a Domme when I moved to Dubai.
My style of Domination can be categorised as sensual, soft Domination, as I do not provide toilet training, fisting, hard Domination, etc. You can find out more about what turns me on and what does not, on my website: https://www.sensualdominatrix.com/, where also, you can read some of my fantasies, check my gallery. You can follow me on my socials for daily updates and news, Twitter: @MistressACox1 and Instagram: @miss_alexis_cox.
1. You have described yourself as a sensual Dominatrix, what does this exactly mean?
When I started my journey in BDSM, I was watching some mistresses and I felt a bit intimidated, even scared a bit. I knew I was a dominant type of person, but I did not want to do certain things, simply because it does not go well with my personality. I was asking Dominatrix friends what they do, how they do things and I started to see things clearer, what I am comfortable with and what makes me turned on.
By time, I was sure, I am more sensual, than hardcore Domme. My power over you does not come from spitting, peeing or putting my feces on you, but more of how you are expected to behave around me and in a way I dominate you psychologically throughout the session.
I control your orgasm through your senses, you get into a deep mind set, a trance, when you have a session with me and also I enjoy your hot breath, warm lips on my body. As much as I want you to have an experience, not just a robotic session with me, as much as I want to give my body into pleasure and my mind into ease.
Furthermore as a Dominatrix with a striptease background, I love to seduce you by getting naked too. It is part of my session to see you get more and more excited, watching me slowly undress, whilst you are tied to the bed and cannot do anything else apart from begging for my touch.
Then, depending on my mood, I love to either edge you to the max, until you start to shake, or punish you with spanking, then my finger, and different sizes of dildos. The goal is to make you suffer to the max, see you struggle and beg for sweet relief of my hand or you are ordered to touch yourself for my liking, whilst I touch myself or not.
2. How old were you when you started exploring sensuality?
I was 16. I’ve always been very sexual. I love to be naughty, love to have sex, love to suck dick, be adventurous, have sex anywhere and everywhere. I make sure you get addicted to my pussy and my ass, and look at me as the most valuable treasure you can have. Obviously I do this when I’m in a relationship, for clients I do not offer full service.
3. What sort of roleplays and games go hand in hand with sensual play?
I love any kind of role play, because it makes my mind go nuts and come up with heaps of fantasies. For example, one of my dear regulars wanted me to be his gorgeous, “nothing-is-ever-enough” wife. I made him beg to kiss my pussy, he had to prove his worthiness by bringing me some gift (I love perfumes particularly, I collect them, it is ALWAYS appreciated), giving me excellent massage and then, just after being such a good puppy, I only let him taste my delicious sweet pussy juice.
Another time, I was in the role of a psychotherapist, who took advantage of her client having amnesia, when he visited her. I told him the reason why his mind plays a trick on him is because I make him my little bitch, and rape him with my gorgeous dildo and his mind just cuts out. I laugh at him as he is sucking on my dildo, then make him work for that dick by riding me whilst I’m on the bed. Little slut deserved to be treated in such a way.
4. Can you give me an example of one of your most memorable playtime?
Oh my, there were so many amazing sessions, but one of them stands out particularly, as this gentleman was shaking, got dizzy and had such a huge cum. We started the session with a short chat, talk about our fantasies, which was already very exciting and electrifying. Then we got on the bed, here he was giving me an absolutely amazing foot worship that turned me on so much.
Then he massaged my body, then started to kiss my legs and then he rimmed me so well. After this I was super turned on, so I turned around, grabbed his head and pushed him on my pussy to lick it. Then I ordered him to get on his back, I tied him up and started to stroke his body with my nails, avoiding touching his cock just going near it.
He was so turned on, his breathing was crazy fast. This is when I sat on his face and touched his hard on. I got off him so I can watch him going crazy. I was playing with him for so long, edging him. He started to shake, begging me to cum, so when we were getting close to our 3 hours playtime, I grabbed my vibrator and pushed it to my pussy.
My moaning and my touch made him cum so big, which made me cum huge too. After this I made him clean me up. He couldn’t stand up, he was dizzy and sounded like he just done a marathon 😂
5. What are some of your favourite toys or tools you use for sensual play?
My favourite toy is my hands and breath. When I edge someone, I tie them up, then use anything and everything that is around me (ice, cold steel, flogger, nails, hot breath, etc). The main goal is to get you into a state of mind, where nothing else exists, just my voice, the music and our time together.
I genuinely love to experience seeing your dick get hard, seeing your breathing get faster and then watch you blow up, have the biggest orgasm of your life. Obviously as I get very turned on, I make you lick me out after you just came. It is my ink to sign your face that you’re my property.
Other times I love to spank, use floggers, belts, whatever I can to make your ass red and warm. Then put my finger in you, work my way up to bigger and bigger dildos.
6. And finally, tell us something interesting about Mistress Alexis Cox that will make someone’s jaw drop
Probably the most interesting thing about me is that I am highly educated, I have an undergrad and 3 postgrad qualifications and that I travelled around the world, been to 29 countries. I think I was born to experience new things, new cultures, study and to widen my mind.
I had so many amazing experiences throughout my travels: threesome with two 22 years old navy guys, when I was 33 and counting how many men I can fuck the same day in Key West, Florida; a bisexual boyfriend, with whom I had several spicy nights and a private mansion swingers fuck party in Sydney, Australia; I crossed another sex bucket list point, which was to score with my so far youngest prey (13 years younger) in New Zealand and I could go on.
There we have it, sensual play lovers!
I hope you enjoyed reading this interview blog. A huge Shout-Out to Dirk Hooper for connecting me with Mistress Alexis Cox! And a massive thank you to the wonderful – Mistress Alexis Cox for answering my questions so comprehensively.
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Much Kink Love,
Podopheleus
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