The BIG debate! Penis size Vs Masculinity

Penis size vs masculinity? What does it mean to be masculine? It’s the million-dollar question!

Does having a monster-cock make you more masculine?

Penis size Vs masculinity! 10 inches in length and 2 inches in girth) The bigger the better, right? 

I guess having a large cock will give a man more confidence, right? Can it make a man feel more manly? Is it the key to a happier life? They say women find larger penises more attractive!

So what happens if a man doesn’t have a gargantuan cock?

So let’s say a man has a small/micro penis. Will women think less of a man? 

Are men with small cocks disadvantaged in comparison to men with larger cocks?

Penis size Vs Masculinity

Does your cock-size affect your mental health?

I don’t have the answers. However, like The Notorious B.I.G. I got a story to tell…

Growing up I suffered with small-penis syndrome. It affected my mental health, my self-esteem, my self-confidence and I was downright shy. Whenever I spoke to a girl I would start blushing as red as a tomato. I hated myself. I wished I was someone else. I kept saying, why me? 

Later in life I started building confidence by having confident friends. I also had a lot of female friends. However, it didn’t help hearing my female friends bashing their ex-boyfriends whilst hurling small penis insults and jokes. 

Anyhoo, let’s fast forward.

I had a crush on this girl. Furthermore, she had a boyfriend. We became good friends and she would tell me personal things about her boyfriend e.g “Oh, he’s extremely well-endowed!” I once asked her would you date a guy if he had a small-penis. She replied “Fuck no.” Well that’s just great isn’t it? Anyhoo, to cut the long story short, he cheated on her and she walked out on him.

However, I knew I never had a chance. Nevertheless, it got to the point where I stopped giving a fuck. I just wanted to have fun and live my life without worrying about my penis-size. I stopped giving a fuck about pretty much everything. At that moment the girl I had a crush on confessed she had feelings for me. I learned a lot from this experience. Just to let you know, that girl became my wife. Krazy, huh?

Are you annoyed at women saying that penis size does matter? 

Of course not! Does penis-size matter? Personally I feel that there is no right or wrong answer. It’s a individual preference. It is what it is. Some women don’t care that much about penis size. Some women prefer a larger penis and penis size does matter. However, we can’t blame women for their sexual preferences. Most importantly, is for a man to know himself.

Penis size Vs Masculinity – What did you learn?

I learned to let go of attachment and to stop seeking validation from others.

However, as of recently I discovered self-love and self-acceptance and what it means, which has lead me to a happier life. 

I also discovered self-discipline. If I set myself a semen retention challenge of 80 days – I know I am mentally strong enough to get through the 80 days. I gained self-discipline by giving myself monthly challenges. E.g waking up at 4:30am which is no longer a challenge it’s a daily habit.

I learned a lot from stepping out of my comfort zone. I never thought I would write a book! However, through self-discipline, I also discovered self-belief and inner-strength.

Penis size Vs Masculinity  – Have you stopped worrying yet?


Hence why I’m writing this blog. I feel comfortable with my penis size because I’ve learned to accept myself unconditionally.

Does penis-size affect your masculinity? 

Does it??

I would love to hear your thoughts on this! Feel free to hit me up on Twitter and Instagram, or via the site

Much Kink Love,


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