Affirmations during sex & premature ejaculation

What is going on Kinksters? In today’s blog I’m going to talk about using affirmations during sex and techniques to delay premature ejaculation. 

Middle of the night quickie 

Okie-dokie it’s story time! So, my wife woke me up in the middle of the night for a quickie and this is what happened. 

First, I was knocked out cold in bed. However, I was woken up with a yoo-hoo massage. I wondered, what friggin’ time is it! Anyhoo! Whatever! My wife is horny and ready for it. Even though I was dog-tired. I never reject sex! Somehow I had to switch on the horniness. 

So, before getting down to business, we teased each other for some time. We got to the point where we couldn’t hold out much longer. I put on a Rubber Johnny and we get down to business. I remember thinking holy fuck this feels so fricken’ good. I forgot that I was tired. 

My heart was beating out of my chest. Goddamn! I’m loving life. I went from not having the energy nor the motivation to humping away like I had seven cups of coffee.

However, I had to refrain myself from getting too excited because I felt like I was about to bust a nut at any second like Jim from American Pie. I thought I can’t fricken’ cum now. This is not a orgasm denial session. 

So what should I do to stop myself from cumming?

Hmm.. should I think of something horrible?! Fuck that! That ain’t gonna work. So, I tried something new. 

  • First – controlling my breathing. Big inhales and long, slow exhales. Breathing this way helped me relax. 
  • Second – repeating affirmations in my head.

No joke! That’s exactly what I did. I had a list of affirmations replaying in my head, including:

  • I can cum whenever I want
  • I can fuck for hours on end
  • I am amazing at sex
  • I can have sex for long durations without cummin
  • I decide when I want to cum

As I repeated my affirmations, I thought of a time where I lasted for a long time. Now that’s what I call a fricken’ confidence booster! I carried on repeating my affirmations and concentrating on my breath. My wife started yelling I’m cummin. Thank fricken’ goodness. As you can imagine I was very happy. 

Lastly, now it’s my fricken’ turn to cum. ?

And that’s my story, guys! From that moment on I used this hack to delay ejaculation. It’s seriously goddamn incredible. 

Furthermore, I do have another technique to stop premature ejaculation. However, It is a more common technique. I have been using this technique for a few years now and it’s pretty awesome. So my next technique to prevent premature ejaculation is – Edging!

What is Edging?

Edging is the subtle art of not busting a nut. Huh? Allow me to explain, will ya?! 

Edging is the practice of stopping yourself from cummin right when you’re about to bust a nut. 

Fo’ shizzle. So, this is how I edge:

Firstly, I take out the lube because lube reduces friction. Additionally, lube feels fricken’ awesome. I personally use liquid silk.

Secondly, I bash the bishop to the point where I am about to bust a nut, then stop, then wait a bit. On a scale of 1 – 10. 10 being the hardest. I wait for my cock to go down to a level 6. I then start the whole process all over again. I usually do this 3 – 4 times. I set a timer for 20 – 30 minutes. 

Thirdly, when I edge I don’t always bust a nut. Be borne in mind that it is not essential to cum every time you edge yourself. 

So, what is the effin point of edging? 

To put it in a nutshell. Edging makes sex last longer! Hurrah! High five?! Erm… Don’t touch me, dude. I don’t know where your hands have been!

Further benefits – Edging is a awesome way to reach an intense, mind-blowing orgasm.

So, what techniques have you used to delay premature ejaculation? What affirmations will you start using? I would love to fricken’ hear this!

And on a slightly different topic – have you ever tried Semen Retention???! It’s great you should give it a go ;-). Feel free to hit me up on Twitter and Instagram, or via the site

Much Kink Love

Podopheleus

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