The other side to a Dominatrix. When you think of a domme what is your perception of a Dominatrix? For me a Dommes persona is sexy, yet intimidating, furthermore she speaks elegantly with intelligence, and is always direct

What is the general perception of a dominatrix?

I asked a few friends “What is your perception of a Dominatrix?” One friend responded “isn’t a Dominatrix a classy prostitute!” I’m thinking Oh Laawwd! Another friend responded “they’re man haters, right?” And the last friend responded “they’re sex workers who help out weirdos with fetishes!” Haha! I love that one!

Anyhoo! Let’s dive-in, Ay! Please allow me to enlighten you on the other side to Dommes you will not see online. Are you intrigued to find out? Let’s do this!

The other side to a dominatrix

The other side to a dominatrix

(1) At the end of July 2020 my father passed away and I was devastated. I felt lost and confused and I needed a session. So I did just that. I booked a session! I was a bit nervous though because it was my first session with Dominatrix – Mistress Sakura Strike. However, we were emailing back and forth about our upcoming session and she asked this question “How to care for you?” Which no Domme had ever asked me before.

It’s not all about domination

How to care for me? So, I responded:

“My father passed away this week. I’m a bit sensitive right now. I don’t think it will affect our session. However, if I do get a bit tearful at any point, please give me a moment or a firm cuddle would be nice. I’m hoping it won’t come to that though.”

She replied “I’m so sorry about what happened ? we can talk about it after our session, my dad passed two years ago so literally I understand you.”

At the beginning of our session we spoke briefly about my father. She saw me getting a little teary-eyed. So she quickly squeezed me in a hug. After the session we spoke for almost half an hour about my father. She was so lovely to me! She then said “I have a photoshoot now, but you can sit in if you wish to. There’s no rush for you to leave.” I replied “Oh, I’d better get going, Mistress Sakura but thank you so much.” As I went to leave she said “If you need someone to talk to you can drop me an email with your mobile number and I will call you”.

I was blown away by her kindness and generosity. 

(2) I booked a session in advance for after my Dad’s funeral. I made my Domme – Mistress Adreena, aware of my father’s funeral. On the day of the funeral she sent me this beautiful message:

“Hi darling. I hope I’m not disturbing, I just wanted to let you know I’m thinking of you today, and that you are as well as you can be given the circumstances. Lots of love xxx ❤️”

Thank you, Mistress Adreena. You have touched my heart. 

(3) I had a 1-hour session with another Domme and unfortunately I ejaculated earlier than expected. Ahh Man! You know that feeling, right!

Anyhoo! It was my first session with this Domme and I’m ever so grateful because she’d only charged me for half an hour.

(4) Grammar is not my strong suit. My talent is rhyming! Storytelling! Thinking creatively with a wild imagination! After I wrote Triple-Formed I asked Mistress Adreena if she would kindly proofread it. 

Yup! My Domme proofread Triple-Formed which is a 10,000 + words transcript. She also gave me her insights, which I sincerely appreciated. As a token of gratitude I bought her a single malt whisky, a bottle of wine, a decanter and multiple orgasm brownies. Thank you, Mistress Adreena. 

(5) I recently did a blog about having Covid-19 Symptoms and having a session booked. See, I had Covid like symptoms – but not the full blown list. Additionally, I tested positive for Coronavirus. Yikes!

Anyhoo, I messaged my Domme the day before our session regarding my symptoms. She messaged back saying;

“I can’t really take risks, especially over Christmas and if I’m seeing other people :(“

So the session was cancelled (sob) and that’s completely understandable, right? Anyhoo, a week later she messaged me this:

“Just wanted to drop by and see how you’re feeling? Xx” 

Honestly, I thought it was so sweet of her and I was really touched by her message.

The other side to a dominatrix 

Sex workers are normal human beings just like you and me. Let me point out that sex workers are not harming anyone, as a matter of fact, it was a sex worker that helped me discover my true self.

If you have a friend who has a negative perception of Dommes please forward this blog to them and let them see the other side to a dominatrix.

The world needs to understand that Dommes are highly compassionate people and we need to start treating them with more respect.

What is your perception of a Dominatrix? What do you think is the other side to a dominatrix? I would love to hear your thoughts on the subject. Feel free to hit me up on Twitter and Instagram, or via the site

Much Kink Love,

Podopheleus

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