What is this website about?
So here it is – I’ve finally found the courage to share with you the Podopheleus Story through this website and in my featured writing. This website is a guide for submissive males. If you’re a novice (or advanced submissive) male, I hope you will find everything you need to know to get started and to explore your kinks, fetishes, sexual desires and fantasies without feeling fear, shame or guilt.
Before I visited a Dominatrix, I had so many questions. I spent hours online seeking the answers. However, so many of these questions remained unanswered.
Have you ever had that feeling of not being good enough? The feeling of being lost? The feeling of not fitting in? You want to make positive changes. On the other hand, you don’t know how.
This website along with my blogs and my book, Triple-Formed, are packed with information to jumpstart your journey to self-acceptance and to help you embrace your sexuality through Sexual Equanimity.
My blogs will also teach submissive males how to respectfully communicate with a Dominatrix.
What is Sexual Equanimity?
A great number of men would love to explore their fantasies, fetishes, kinks and desires. However, as previously mentioned, many men either feel guilt, fear or shame. Furthermore, the moment men start exploring their fetishes they could potentially face problems such as addictions/obsessions, seeking validation, overindulgence in masturbation and watching porn.
Sexual Equanimity is mindfulness in sexuality. To freely explore your sexuality with a balanced mind. I hope my writing and featured resources will provide men with help and support.
Who is Podopheleus?
Well let me start off by saying that I am male. Now we got that out the away. Who am I? I am the author of the debut novel Triple-Formed. I am a rhymer. I am a kinkster. I am a submissive. I am advocating for change. I am a men’s mental health supporter. I encourage mindfulness in sexuality. I support Sex Work/Sex Workers.
How did I come up with my pen name?
Podo is defined as foot or feet. Podophilia is a paraphilia connected with sexual attraction to feet or foot fetishism.
Oh and guess what? Yes, I have a foot fetish.
Taking everything into account I came up with the name Podopheleus.
Why am I anonymous?
Two years ago, I found my path to unconditional self-acceptance by embracing who I am. However, I do have a family and to protect my loved ones this is the reason why I would like to remain anonymous.
Please respect my choice on this.
I will be open with you on everything connected with kink and fetish and happily share my experiences to help others.
Why did I write Triple-Formed?
For many people, it can be very difficult to be open about their sexual interests, especially when it comes to fetishisms or female domination (commonly known as Femdomme). Societal perception of men exploring their own sexuality can be viewed negatively, weak or as unmasculine.
I believe men should not have to feel guilt or fear for expressing or exploring their desires. Mental health and male depression is on the rise and these issues can play a significant role – from young teenagers not knowing how to explore their desires – to adult men living in shame and secrecy. Triple-Formed is fictional journey, but the complex issues addressed within it are very real.
My writing style
Triple-Formed tells a story of characters I created along with worldbuilding using multi-syllable rhymes. I love being creative. I use punchlines, similes, metaphors, alliterations and wordplay in my writing.
Here’s an example of my writing style:
“Damn! It’s like the penny has dropped
My rhymes are tasteful! You savored every drop
The word successful is a broad term
Inward transformation. Oh, it’s so important
My passion fulfills me I don’t write out of boredom
I thought I was a worrier by design
I transitioned to a warrior of the mind
I know longer live with my fists curled
I am who I want to be in this world”
There you have it – this is my writing style.
Triple-Formed is a complex piece of art. Are you ready to delve into a world of complex characterization? Female Domination? Sexual exploration? And mental health?
I hope you’ve enjoyed reading my Podopheleus Story and if you feel a connection to any of these issues – feel free to hit me up on Twitter and Instagram or send me a message via the site.
Much Kink Love
P.S. – have you read my latest blog on all things kink…?!